• Kink, pornography, sex therapy, sex-worker ally, BDSM, leather, fetishism, swinging, polyamory, non-monogamous couples, & non-traditional sexuality, identities, and relationships



  • Kinky desires and behaviors have been around much longer than the concept of kink-affirming therapy. Being kinky does not equate to difficulties with mental health or well-being. I provide nonjudgmental, affirming therapy for individuals and relationships navigating kink, non-monogamy, and sexual exploration. I understand the stigma that can surround these experiences and offer a space where your identity and desires are respected—not pathologized.

    Whether you're a seasoned BDSM practitioner, exploring open relationships, engaging in swinging or fantasy play, consuming adult content regularly, or curious about turning private fantasies into real-life experiences, you're welcome here. I am kink-aware, kink-affirming, sex-worker allied, and well-versed in the emotional and relational dynamics of alternative sexualities.

    Kink and consensual non-monogamy are not signs of dysfunction—they can be powerful paths to self-discovery, deeper connection, healing, and personal growth. My work honors the complexity and potential of these practices to support emotional insight, intimacy, and transformation.
  • As a member and advocate of the LGBTQIA+ community, I’m committed to providing affirming, evidence-based care rooted in deep clinical expertise and lived understanding. I specialize in supporting sexual and gender minority individuals and couples using CBT, DBT, and the Unified Protocol for emotional disorders.

    Whether you’re navigating identity, coming out, internalized stigma, minority stress, intersectionality, or complex family dynamics, our work will be grounded in compassion and cultural humility. We can explore intimacy, sex, gender and sexual fluidity, transitioning, families of origin and choice—or choose not to focus on identity at all, while still holding space for its impact.

    I also proudly offer capacity evaluations and letters of support for gender-affirming medical care, using an informed consent model that centers your autonomy and dignity.


    Many individuals embody multiple intersecting identities—including racial, cultural, religious, spiritual, gender, and sexual—that shape their unique experiences. Intersectionality refers to how these overlapping identities interact to influence one’s perspective and challenges, while cultural humility is a commitment to ongoing self-reflection and learning about these diverse backgrounds with respect and openness. In therapy, we will thoughtfully explore how these interconnected aspects of your identity impact your life, working together to understand and navigate any conflicts or distress that arise, fostering greater self-awareness and empowerment.
  • Minority stress describes the unique and persistent challenges faced by stigmatized groups due to systemic, interpersonal, and historical discrimination. Stress processes (i.e., expectations of rejection, hiding, concealing, internalized homophobia, problematic coping processes, etc.) are affected by stressors like prejudice, sexual stigma, poor social support and socioeconomic status. Stigmatized groups are pressured to adapt, and incur stress that affects physical and mental health outcomes. These stressors are unique, chronic and socially based.

    In our work together, we’ll explore how these dynamics show up in your life, assess your current coping strategies, and develop new tools that support resilience, empowerment, and self-affirmation. My goal is to help you reconnect with your strength and authenticity—even when those qualities have been overshadowed by adversity.

    Therapy can help with:

    • Developing healthy relationships
    • Addressing social stigma, discrimination or related shame
    • Coming out safely and with liberation
    • Stress, anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns
    • Internalized homophobia
    • Problematic patterns of thinking and negative self-talk
    • Sexual practices & lifestyles
    • Navigating toxic or unsupportive family dynamics
    • Self-esteem and confidence
    • Safer sex practices
    • Suicidal ideation, prevention & support
    • Exploring trauma
    • And much much more...

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